Females dont always climax during intercourse, but they almost always do during masturbation.. At least, if they’re prepared to put in a bit of practice, they do.
The first orgasm is usually the hardest to achieve. It may also be mild and fleeting, but it gets way better. And once a woman has an orgasm on her own, she has a much better shot at getting there when she has company.
So we’d like to share with you ten masturbation tips every woman should know, whether you’ve never climaxed, you’d like to be multi-orgasmic, or you’re just in need of a masturbation makeover.
1. Become familiar with yourself down below, so you are comfortable.
Get a mirror, and really have a good look at your vagina, as the more familiar you are with what you’ve got, the better you can work it. Men would fight for for that view; your partners find it sexy, and so should you.
2. Make time for yourself.
Spend a rainy Saturday afternoon at home. Have a relaxed sleep in, have your phone turned off, if you are a beginner, and never had an orgasm before, give yourself an hour every few days to practice, but with no expectations of orgasm to avoid disappointment.
3. Do some girly things that relaxes you.
Light some candles, take a long warm bath, drink a glass of wine, play that totally cheesy album you’d never admit turns you on, read a hot raunchy book, It’s all about feeling sexy and getting in the correct mood and head space.
4. Use your hands.
Use your palm. Use your knuckles. Use one hand to pull the pull your lips apart tight and expose your clitoral head. Stroke it lightly with your middle finger. Make a double-handed fist and lie on it. Keep one hand on the genitals while the other goes wandering.
And try a little penetration action, either throughout the masturbating or right as you climax, in your vagina or maybe even your bum. You may not need this to reach an orgasm but if you feel you do go for it.
5. Use lube. Click here
All these moves will feel way better if you’re using purpose-made lubricant. Plus, a well-lubed clitoris can usually take more attention and this might just be the key to your orgasm.
6. Be a thigh master.
Squeeze your thigh muscles, or rub your thighs together. Cross your legs at the ankles, cross them at the knee, or cross ’em in both places to really tighten things up —
Some lucky ladies can get off from this alone, but even if you can’t, a little lemon-squeezing will always enhance your me-time.
7. Get your mind into the gutter.
Tell yourself a dirty story and give yourself a starring role. It’s not cheating if it’s all in your mind. Try out that impossible position. Have a four-way. Host an orgy. Indulge your damsel-in-distress fantasy. Watch an adult porn movie this is really fun.
8. Break out the adult toys.
Some people say you shouldn’t use a toy until you’ve succeeded with your own hand. We say, whatever floats your little man in the boat. Plus, once you know what your orgasm feels like, it’s easier to get there by hand.But nothing beats using a cliterous vibrator, to get you all fired up, Plus once you get used to them they give you an amazing orgasm, and you can also use them while you are having sex with your partner doggy style, this is unbelievable.
9. Suprise your partner.
If you’ve got a special someone in your life, masturbate in the passenger seat while they're driving — and don’t let them pull over. Or do it while they’re tied up on the phone with the office. Or while they’re tied to the bedposts.
10. Do it together.
You eat together, shop together, choose wallpaper patterns together — why not masturbate together, Its called mutual masturbation and it rocks. You do you, your partner does themselves, and you both get to watch and play.
It’s stimulating, very sexy, invigorating plus, it’s the best way to see what really works for your partner. Do it as foreplay, or make a night of it.
So what are you waiting for, ladies?
