Most men have sex drives. They can be low or they can be high, but they exist. Many men masturbate to achieve orgasm. because of their sex drives.
This still comes as a shock to folks because well, female masturbation isn't talked about the same way male masturbation is talked about.
This is a fact that used to drive me nuts until I realized one critical thing: Men and women have VERY different relationships with self-pleasuring
When I started talking to my female friends about male masturbation, they all seemed baffled by the way in which the men they know handle it and how men really think about it.
"For women, masturbation is a private not talked about thing to do, but for men, it's like brushing their teeth," said one friend.
This got me wondering: How often does the common man really masturbate, and why do men enjoy to masturbate so often.
So I decided to conduct my own search and ask the men I know.
Have often do you masturbate? Why do you enjoy it so much?
Mark said
“When I was single at least 3-4 times a day. Now that I'm in a relationship: 2-4 times a week (sadly not because of having large amounts of sex, it's just more enjoyable when you're ‘hungry’)”
Joe said
“5-6 times a week. It is most days unless I don't get a chance to. It’s not always about being horny, sometimes it’s just about the release and relaxation. Most of the time I would average twice a day, often it is not out of need its something to do that helps me relax. I have also found I do it more since I have purchased my masturbation toys as it becomes no effort.
Brett said
“Far too often. Used to be twice a day, now it's maybe once a day. More often than not though that one session consists of double orgasms. It’s like an itch I have to scratch. It’s very different than sex.”And now there are so many masturbation toys that make it feel like the real thing, and make me ejaculate so quickly I cant help myself.
James said
“Once a day before bed for sure. If I'm bored and not doing much, sometimes it's a couple of times before I fall off to sleep. On days off when I'm alone I usually will toss out two more. If my wife and I have sex before I go to bed then I don't need to rub one out.twice a day.
Mick said
“When I'm single, it is around 3 times a week. When I'm in a relationship, it is much more often, as when I am seeing somebody I'm attracted to, my sex drive goes nuts and it's really weird.
Tony said
”“When I was a teenager it was up to 4 times a day. I was constantly horny and it was also out of boredom. Now it's like once a night, but it can be more or less than that. If I'm traveling, for example, I usually only do it a couple of times a week as I am usually busy and working late so am exhausted. If I have the weekend to myself, it's like a non stop masturbatory party.
Andrew said
”“Once or twice a day. Worth noting that in some of these instances I'm masturbating as I fall asleep, it seems to relax me and help me fall asleep.
Jay said
“It varies a lot. A couple of months ago, it was around 2 times a day. I haven't done it in 2 weeks, and even then that was just a, "Huh I haven't done that in a while, I should do that.”
Jake said
“Daily, usually. It's a nice form of stress relief and I haven't been with anyone else in over two years, so it's not like my sex drive has any other real vent.” I tend to alternate all my different sex toys to make it easier as I can tend to be lazy ,and it also makes it feel real.
Ben said
“I don't think my habits are normal, but I go for like 2 or 3 weeks without masturbating and then think, "Huh, it's been a while," and masturbate. Then I remember how much I like it and start doing it really often (like, twice a day or possibly more if I've got lots of free time and nobody is around), and this goes on for a week or two until I just get sick of masturbating and have no desire to do it again for 2 or 3 weeks.”
Paul said
Three times a day minimum. Once after waking up. Once before sleeping. Once before/after lunch. I also masturbate while I play online poker to relieve stress. When I had a girlfriend, it was also three times a day; it was too routine for me to give up.”
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